When someone cheats on you, not only you feel bad because of the treason, but you also feel bad because you feel like you somehow failed as a woman, as a wife, and even as a mother. Moreover, you feel judged like that by your family and your friends, even if they don’t say anything about it.
On the other hand, men are sometimes praised about it! Because having more than one woman is being a real man, they say.
I think part of the problem is that cheating is hard to prove and that cheaters seem to get away with it most of the time.
That’s why I decided to use iPhone spy software the moment my husband gave me clear signs that he was sleeping with someone else. I had suspected it from a long time, but when he disappeared one night and claimed he had an emergency business trip, I had enough.
In case you didn’t know, iPhone spy software is a program that monitors the iPhone that your husband carries and in consequence, lets you know who he is in touch you, at what time, and for what reason.
Sure enough, the iPhone spy software told me that my husband was having an affair, just like I suspected. However, the real advantage of the iPhone spy software was that it let me know the number and name of the person that he was sleeping with.
I resisted the urge to confront him until I found out more. After a couple of weeks, I had a much better picture of things. I knew where he met her, for how long, and what they did. It was very hard to get this information and keep it inside myself, but I knew that until I got the whole picture, he would deny it or say I was making everything up.
In the end, the wait was worth it. When I finally confronted him with all the facts, he was so surprised and stunned that he had no way to defend himself or deny it. And of course, after the divorce, I contacted his lover and gave her a piece of my mind as well.
I don’t regret using iPhone spy software at all. Although I am single again, I’d rather be by myself than living with a person who clearly thinks I’m not enough for him.